A Kite's Tail
For a person who is a dreamer, relationships are very much like the tail of a kite. Think about how the tail functions. It does not keep the kite grounded, but rather allows it to catch the wind without allowing it to be blown all over the place.
A kite without a tail is like a dreaming man without relationships. He is blown all over the place with no true sense of purpose or direction. Grand ideas turn into being blown around by surrounding circumstances.
In contrast, a kite with a tail can be led to go where it needs to go to avoid obstacles and to soar higher.
Spiritually speaking, when we are tied to God and grounded in our relationship with Him, we can be blown by the Pneuma trusting that it is the direction in which He is leading us.